雖然這篇跟生死有關，不過這方法挺有意思的。而且還真多跟懷孕有關的名詞
http://www.icrt.com.tw/blog/index.php?blogId=18&poId=6&ptId=24&pthreeId=6
whatsnew | 10 June, 2011 15:36
Imagine for a moment that you're a counseling psychiatrist and your job is comforting terminal patients
and their families. You're standing at the end of a hospital bed whereon lies a young woman with four
weeks to live. She's dying of cancer. In chairs around the bed sit her husband, her mother and father.
What do you say to them ?
Dr Hussein Danesh is a psychiatrist and the author of 'The Psychology of Spirituality.' Dr Danesh made
his living facing the situation we've just described. He writes about what he used to say to the victims
and families. And this is it:
Two twins are in the womb of their mother late in the third trimester of her pregnancy. They love the
constant umbilical source of nourishment, the occasional restful swaying motion, the perfect temperature
of the amniotic fluid.
One rather unsettling day, Ralph senses that he's alone. He thinks, 'Oh, no! Phil's dead. He's gonna miss
this and I'm gonna miss Phil.'
Of course, we know that Phil's been born into this world and Ralph thinks he'll never see him again.
Phil, meanwhile, is in this world thinking, "Good Lord, wait'll Ralph gets a load of this. I'm breathing air.
I'm getting hugged, talked to and breast-fed. The lighting is better. There's color. I knew my eyes were
for something.
Dr Danesh would then explain that though we seem to be terminated, we only die to this world, so to
speak, to be born into a vastly better one and our loved ones will join us later.
This world, in other words, is also a womb world, and like the womb, a preparation for the next. Dr Danesh
writes that no matter the family's former take on death, this fresh paradigm, never failed to comfort.
For Perspective, I'm Mike Woodward
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