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i think there is usually, if not always, a gap between imagined scenario, best case scenario or hoped scenario, whatever you call it.
and as a matter of fact, the longer you've been involved in the process , the easier you get to detect the sign and the easier the gap shows.
going with the flow is kind of like the best case scenario; sometimes you just don't wanna go with it instinctively, which brings all
the sufferings to you.
it's just like a hyena sinking its teeth into your flesh and tearing it back and forth, again and again, which would at last make you figure out one day,
that there is no unpainful solution, a naive thought if you still expect that.
being mature is to acknowledge how bad the circumstance is, and to find a way out of the dilemma, which is mental most of the time.
Spinning around something troublesome is annoying and grueling, but most people just let themselves fall into the spiral. it;s like a black
hole whether you notice it or not. it's like the natural process, just like water flowing from high to low. So natural that you don't even notice
that untill you are deep inside the whirlpool. And most people wouldn't resist being dragged into the whirlpool because they are still thinking
the sweet scenario or because they didn't know they were falling into it . It's like they don't even have a chance to prevent that tragedy.
By scrutinizing ourselves deep inside, the most useful way would come out gradually (note that there is no "best" way when things
became like this).And the way is, try to keep your self, because what makes you glitter again , is being yourself, being like yourself,
being loyal to yourself, being honest to yourself. Bring the best inside stuff back to yourself, bring what attracts everyone back.
At least one thing is comforting: these wouldn't last forever; things and mood will go back on the good track as it always do.
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